Method #7: Stay in There

Have you ever tried to stop yourself by suddenly pulling out? Don't do that. You may be able to stop yourself, but you'll only annoy your partner, who wants you to remain inserted so that she continues to feel good. Plus, all that stopping and starting will make her anxious. Besides, if you mess up and finish, at least you do it inside her and not all over the sheets.

I got one all over the sheets today, and she was really pissed. She maintains that she doesn't care if I go quick, but spunking on the linens really ticks her off. She was upset, I was feeling shitty about myself with this stupid problem of mine, especially because I swear I used to have unbelievable control (pathetic that I have to keep mentioning that), and we were both quiet for an uncomfortable few hours. She told me that she estimates that I've been having this problem for about the last six months of our one year relationship. I had no idea it has been going on that long, which made me feel even crappier.

We then had a great night out, came home drunk, and I was a sexual dynamo. I really hope to find more viable options with these 101 blogs than getting drunk because I think in the grand scheme of things I'd rather be a premature ejaculator than a full blown alcoholic.